There are many surveys that show the importance of flirting with others even when you are in a relationship with someone. I am sure after reading this line majority of people, whoever is in a relationship, will raise their brows and doubt this theory.
The first thought that you are having after reading this, is why should I flirt with anyone when I am already in a serious relationship? But I and many other surveys will beg to differ with your theory of relationship. Because the relationship is not a signed contract in which one discusses with their partner about different terms and conditions.
Even after being in a relationship, people may find you attractive and vice-versa. If you are settling down with your man/woman that does not mean that you are not attractive or you can not find another person attractive.
According to new findings, a person in a serious relationship feels an intense connection with his or her partner but that never means that the person can not feel some connection with some other person. Sometimes it happens that we met someone and we instantly get into sync with someone, or we find someone has same traits as we do or someone out there is just like us. Who reads the same old boring novel or who watches same Television series as we do. Sometimes we clicked so much with that person that we can talk to them endlessly without any serious flirting. There is always a fine line between a normal banter, flirting and cheating. If you are flirting with someone while being in a relationship then you should know your limits and does not cross it. For example, if you are with your partner and you meet any old friend or you met a friend of your partner and you constantly clicked with that person. So its perfectly fine to indulge in harmless flirting with that person in-front your partner but exchanging phone numbers and going out with someone else is quite excessive.
People often consider that being in a relationship is like losing our freedom, because as soon as the romantic phase of a relationship ends, we start to feel trapped in our relationship. Having a great rapport with any other person is often considered as cheating and people try to restrict themselves from feeling this.
Well if you are feeling attracted towards someone, then you should talk to that person because if you will try to suppress your urge it is not human instincts to do something that you are forbidden to do. If you go and talk to the person you are feeling attracted towards, then there is high possibility that your attraction will fade away.
There is a popular phrase “You want what you can’t have.” This is the prime reason that we find someone attractive while in a relationship. So if you like someone at the first sight, then there are 90 percent chances you won't like that person after talking to them.