New Survey: Top 5 sexual fantasies which people try in the United States
When we talk about sexual moves and sex positions, Americans are always ahead of this game. Whether you want to believe or not but people in India always try to copy western culture.
People in America come a long way in terms of sexual liberation.
Now, sodomy laws were struck down in the US in 2003!
But when it comes to fantasies, kinks, and letting go of the shame that surrounds our sexual desires, most of us still have a ways to go.
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What do you call a normal sexual fantasy?
According to a researcher, when we say something is “normal,” that means it’s “statistically common,”, or which is not unique or weird.
A normal fantasy is something which a lot of people have. A normal sex with a normal sex position.
In this article, some of the fantasies listed below are non-consensual and/or illegal.
What is a kink?
It is a kind of wild sexual activity or desire that makes you wanna go hunting (sexually) on your partner.
Group sex
By the name it self, you can understand it simply means sex with multiple partners.
You won't believe but is apparently America’s favorite fantasy; in particular, threesomes (89 percent of the survey respondents reported fantasizing about this), followed by orgies (74 percent), and gang-bangs (61 percent).
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Though men were more likely to have all of these fantasies, where surprisingly a majority of women also reported having these fantasies as well.
It is specially for those people who have the desire of getting rough with two or more people at once.
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BDSM
There is no way Fifty Shades of Grey would have sold a bajillion number of copies if Americans were not interested in BDSM?
Famously know as Bondage Discipline Submission/Sadism Masochism.
BDSM simply explains the desire to play with power, pleasure, and pain during sex which makes it extremely popular.
Sixty percent of survey participants reported fantasizing about inflicting physical pain on someone else during sex.
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More Americans like to give up control rather than take control during sex, as per the survey. It has been said that in this particular activity, both the parties receive pleasure to some extent.
The act of giving pain and receiving pleasure at the same time. Like a girl surrender herself and the guy watches her in that very pain. It makes the guy hunt that girl down even more.
The most commonly mentioned acts within BDSM fantasies were: spanking, biting, and whipping.
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Novelty and adventure
As the saying goes, variety is the spice of life, it is a true fact in the bedroom.
The third most common sexual fantasy involves sexual activities, (we could technically include BDSM and group sex in this category as well), unique settings (an airplane, the beach), and a “surprising or thrilling” encounter (such as doin’ it in public, incorporating food, or trying out a new toy).
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People get influenced by various sources or from other people’s fantasies (their own imaginations), which is followed by porn.
The use of sex toys is also very common fantasy for couples in the bedroom, because they try to spice things up. Also, it is the most common of all BDSM props such as blindfolds and handcuffs, followed by strap-on dildos.
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Taboo sex
It involves voyeurism, fetish objects, and exhibitionism.
It is no surprise that weird sexual fantasies that are considered taboo are common among Americans.
However, it was also found that some these sexual fantasies are also common among Indians.
They are, in fact, far more widespread than love, romance and focused fantasies.
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The three most common taboo fantasies are voyeurism, or the desire to watch other people undress, naked or to have sex without their knowledge or consent.
Also, fetish objects, aka “objects that one relies on for feelings of sexual arousal," and exhibitionism: having sex while others watch, and/or exposing one’s genitals without the consent of the onlookers.
It has been revealed that these three (voyeurism and non-consensual exhibitionism) are illegal, which makes them even more taboo.
Partner sharing and non-monogamy
According to an expert, non-monogamy aka swinging, partner sharing, and polyamory are not the same as we think.
Being in an open relationship—which he classifies as having a primary partner and pursuing other relationships on the side was the most popular fantasy, as reported by 79 percent of men and 62 percent of women.
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The expert explains polyamory is when a partner or a couple try to maintain multiple sexual and emotional relationships simultaneously. It is the most popular fantasy which includes 70 percent of men and 51 percent of women fantasize about it.
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Swinging—temporary spouse-swapping, often in a party setting—came in third, with 66 percent of men and 45 percent of women reporting related fantasies.
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First published: 20 September 2018, 13:21 IST